Common Tarot Myths Debunked: No, it won’t predict your cat’s love life!

If you’ve ever mentioned to someone that you read tarot, you’ve probably gotten that look. You know the one with raised eyebrows, a slight head tilt, and maybe even a whisper, “But isn’t that… you know… dark?” Or perhaps you’ve been asked if you can predict the exact date they’ll meet their soulmate, win the lottery, or finally get their cat to stop knocking over their houseplants.

As a tarot reader, I’ve heard it all. Tarot is surrounded by myths, misconceptions, and a fair amount of melodrama. So, let’s set the record straight and debunk some of the most common tarot myths. Grab a cup of tea, pull up a chair, and let’s dive in because tarot is way more fun (and way less scary) than people think.

Tarot is Evil or Demonic

Let’s start with the big one. This myth is the granddaddy of all tarot misconceptions, and it’s been around for centuries. The idea that tarot is somehow “evil” or connected to dark forces is a classic case of misunderstanding mixed with a dash of Hollywood drama.

Here’s the truth: Tarot cards are just pieces of cardboard with pretty pictures on them. They’re not inherently good or evil, they’re tools. Think of them like a hammer. You can use a hammer to build a house or, I don’t know, accidentally whack your thumb. The hammer itself isn’t good or bad; it’s all about how you use it.

The tarot is the same. It’s a tool for reflection, insight, and self-discovery. It’s not summoning demons or cursing your ex (though we’ve all had moments that felt tempting). If you approach tarot with respect and an open mind, it’s a powerful way to explore your thoughts, feelings, and choices.

Tarot Can Predict the Future with 100% Accuracy

Yes, the classic “What does my future hold?” question. I get it, life is unpredictable, and we all want a little reassurance. But here’s the thing: tarot isn’t a crystal ball. It’s not going to tell you the exact date you’ll meet your soulmate, land your dream job, or finally figure out how to fold a fitted sheet. (Seriously, is there a trick to that? Because I’m still struggling.)

Tarot is more like a compass than a map. It can point you in a direction, highlight potential outcomes, and help you navigate your choices, but it doesn’t dictate your future. The future isn’t set in stone. It’s shaped by your actions, decisions, and, yes, even that random butterfly flapping its wings halfway across the world.

So, while tarot can offer guidance and insight, it’s not about fortune-telling. It’s about empowerment. It’s about helping you see your options, understand your situation, and make choices that align with your goals and values.

Only “Psychic” People Can Read Tarot

This one makes me laugh because, honestly, if you’d told me 20 years ago that I’d be reading tarot for people, I would’ve thought you were joking. I didn’t grow up with a sixth sense or a mysterious ability to see auras. I’m just a regular person who fell in love with the symbolism and storytelling of tarot.

The truth is, anyone can learn to read tarot. You don’t need to be “psychic” or have some special gift. What you do need is curiosity, an open mind, and a willingness to practice. Reading tarot is like learning a new language. At first, it might feel overwhelming—there are 78 cards, each with its imagery and meaning. But over time, you start to see patterns, make connections, and develop your intuitive style.

And here’s a little secret: intuition isn’t some magical, elusive thing. It’s a skill. It’s about tuning into your inner voice, trusting your instincts, and paying attention to the subtle cues around you. So, if you’ve ever thought, “I could never read tarot—I’m not intuitive enough,” think again. You’ve got this.

Tarot is Only for Spiritual People

Raise your hand if you’ve ever heard someone say, “Tarot is only for hippies, witches, or super-spiritual people.” This myth is so common, and yet it’s so untrue.

Tarot is for everyone. You don’t have to be spiritual, religious, or even believe in anything supernatural to benefit from tarot. At its core, tarot is about storytelling and symbolism. It’s a way to explore your thoughts, feelings, and experiences through a different lens.

Think of it like this: Have you ever had a conversation with a friend that helped you see a situation in a new light? Or maybe you’ve read a book or watched a movie that resonated with you deeply. Tarot works the same way. It’s a mirror that reflects your inner world, helping you gain clarity and perspective.

So, whether you’re a hardcore skeptic, a curious beginner, or someone who’s just looking for a little guidance, tarot has something to offer. You don’t have to light incense, chant under the full moon, or wear a flowing robe to use it. (Though, if that’s your vibe, go for it. You do you.)

The Death Card Means Literal Death

Ooh!! The Death card. It’s the one card that sends shivers down people’s spines and makes them go, “Oh no, is this it? Am I doomed?” Spoiler alert: No, you’re not doomed. In fact, the Death card is one of the most misunderstood cards in the deck.

Here’s the deal: The Death card isn’t about literal death. It’s about transformation, endings, and new beginnings. It’s the card of letting go, shedding old skin, and making space for something new. Think of it like a snake shedding its skin or a caterpillar becoming a butterfly. It’s not always easy, but it’s necessary for growth.

So, the next time you see the Death card in a reading, don’t panic. Instead, ask yourself: What am I ready to release? What’s no longer serving me? And what new opportunities are waiting on the other side of this change?

You Have to Be Gifted a Tarot Deck

This is a fun one. There’s a myth that you should never buy your first tarot deck—it has to be gifted to you. While it’s a lovely idea, it’s not a hard-and-fast rule.

The idea behind this myth is that a gifted deck carries a special energy or connection. And while that can be true, it’s not the only way to form a bond with your cards. The most important thing is that you feel drawn to the deck. Whether you buy it yourself or receive it as a gift, what matters is the intention and energy you bring to it.

So, if you’ve been eyeing a deck but waiting for someone to gift it to you, stop waiting. Treat yourself. You deserve it.

At the end of the day, tarot is what you make of it. It’s not evil, it’s not a crystal ball, and it’s not just for “special” people. It’s a tool for exploration, reflection, and growth. Whether you’re using it to navigate a major life decision or just to add a little magic to your day, tarot is as powerful—or as playful—as you want it to be.

So, the next time someone gives you that look when you mention tarot, just smile and say, “It’s not what you think.” And if they’re curious, maybe offer to pull a card for them. Who knows? You might just debunk a myth or two—and have a little fun along the way.